The Enneagram meets psychology for good relationships and global compassion
The ancient Enneagram
philosophy combines with modern psychology for insight and awareness to lead to
compassion and right action.
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Take a centuries-old
system of personalities charted in a nine point diagram called the Enneagram;
mix it with modern psychology and nonsectarian spiritual ideas and you have a
means for understanding ourselves and others which leads to compassionate and
empathetic behavior.
The Enneagram has undergone a renewal of scholarly attention
in the last decade.
"I think the
Enneagram is here because we need it on a global basis. We need to take more
responsibility for the thoughts and emotions which guide our actions in the
world and to experience the reality of standing in someone else's shoes. We
need to know that objective reality appears to be quite different from another
type's perspective, yet each has its own logic and integrity." Says Helen
Palmer.
The system provides a means in which to understand our own patterns, reactions and blind spots and become more flexible and skillful in interactions with others. When we recognize others' types without bias, we gain tolerance and consideration. We are able to take their negative reactions or hostility impersonally. Without criticism and shame, we are each inspired to profound personal growth and healing. We move toward our inner life and open to the divinity within.
In the Enneagram,
neither qualities nor challenges make one of the nine types better than
another. Each individual copes with self and others in a distinct way
and identifies strengths, potentials
and problems unique to each type impartially. The system reflects normal and
high-functioning behavior rather than pathology – traits rather than symptoms.
The egalitarian concept has been regrettably unique in psychology practices,
though more often found in spiritual direction teachings.
David Daniels,
Clinical Professor at the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences,
Stanford Medical School, is a leading developer of the Enneagram. Daniels leads
workshops on the Enneagram at Spirit Rock Meditation Center in Marin County,
California. Vipassana (Insight) Meditation – to see things as they really are –
aids in release of fixated patterns to reveal one's essential nature. In the
course, participants combine the Enneagram and Vipassana to deepen the capacity
to live with greater wisdom and compassion.
Following are sample
characteristics and facets of the nine personality types according to the
website and "The Pocket Enneagram":
Type 2: The Giver is feeling-based with a focus on relationship. Twos excel at empathy and
support of others but have more difficulty attending to their own needs.
Setting personal boundaries can be challenging and sometimes leads to emotional
outbursts to relieve the pressure. While earning approval and acceptance of
others has merits, it doesn't satisfy the longing to be loved for oneself.
Type 3: The Performer channels their energy into getting things done. These hard workers
accomplish goals and meet other's expectations of success. Threes stay active
and on the go, and find it hard to stop and slow down. Their challenge is to be
self-aware and to achieve with values meaningful to them.
Type 4: The Romantic often expresses through dance, music and poetry. Their attention moves
between empathy and their own inner experience. Their challenge is living with
an open heart while integrating joy and suffering.
Type 5: The Observer is often a scholar or technical expert because of their keen perception
and analytical ability. They value privacy and may experience others as
intrusive. Relationships and feelings present a challenge.
Type 6: The Loyal Skeptic uses perceptions and intellect to understand the world and discern
whether people are friendly or hostile. They anticipate problems and solutions,
know the rules and make agreements yet they oscillate between skepticism or
certainty, rebel or true believer.
Type 7: The Epicure. Sevens possess an optimistic and positive attitude. As excellent
communicators they are less concerned with image and approval. Their priority
is to have fun in travel and adventure.
Type 8: The Protector takes on the leadership role. Energetic and intense, they can
intimidate. They prefer their way yet place a high priority on fairness and
justice. The challenge arises to combine assertion and control with
interdependency and cooperation.
Type 9: The Mediator excels at seeing others' viewpoints but sometimes at their own expense.
They make good arbitrators for others though ambivalence and conflict avoidance
are typical traits. Nines exhibit good instincts but lack body-awareness.
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Diana deRegnier writes from the San Francisco Bay Area. Her articles appear in Internet and print publications around the world. © Copyright 2008 by Diana deRegnier.